Listening to the Land (and You)
Your answers are turning this project into a living conversation between soil and soul.
I’m still reading through your responses to The Steward’s Survey—and honestly, it feels like watching a meadow bloom in slow motion. 🌱
Each answer has its own rhythm: some thoughtful, some funny, some heartbreakingly honest. Thank you to everyone who’s already written in. You’ve made this project come alive.
If you haven’t filled it out yet, consider this your nudge. The land’s been whispering through every answer, and there’s still room for your story.
And since we’re talking about weeds… did you know:
• Dandelions pull calcium and potassium from deep soil layers, literally mining nutrients for the plants around them.
• Plantain (the weed, not the banana) stitches soil back together after compaction—it’s like nature’s Band-Aid.
• Chickweed shows up only when soil is waking up—it thrives in transition, just like many of us.
Maybe the plants are trying to tell us something.
If you’ve got ten minutes and a mug of something warm, wander through the questions here, take your time, answer what resonates. Thank you.
The Steward’s Survey
How to reply: answer in the comments or email me directly.
Anonymity is fine.
Rambling is welcome.
Bullet points welcome.
Take your time.
Part 1 — You & Your Land
What’s your relationship to land right now? (Balcony, backyard, market garden, orchard, vineyard, small farm, “just observing.” How many years in?)
Describe your soil in three words. (Not scientific: feel words: stubborn, generous, dusty, dense…)
Which plant or weed “haunts” you? Name it if you can; describe it if you can’t.
What’s thriving on your land without any help from you?
Which animal is either saving your system or breaking it? (Chickens, bees, lack of livestock, predators…)
What’s your relationship to that plant—or animal: rage, curiosity, resignation, grudging respect?
Part 2 — The Daily Grind
What’s the most frustrating fifteen minutes of your week outside?
What question do you Google or ask most? (“How to kill X?” “Why won’t X grow?” “Is X edible?”)
What pest or disease makes you want to walk away?
When a method doesn’t work, what’s your default move; switch, research spiral, keep forcing it, or walk away?
Part 3 — What You Actually Want
If I handed you one guide tomorrow that solved one problem, what would it be? (Be specific.)
What’s your biggest monthly expense that feels like a leak?
Right now, which do you want more:
A) Deep understanding (why it’s happening)
B) Quick protocol (step 1-2-3)
C) Both, but in separate, short formats
Do you want me to teach how to remove weeds or how to read and use weeds? (I can write both, but not in the same piece.)
Part 4 — How You Learn
When you’re stuck, what format do you actually finish?
30,000-word deep dive
1-page cheat sheet
Audio while you work
1,000-word summary
IG carousel you can save
Would you pay $12 for a guide that saves you money, spares a season of trial and error, and helps connect you more deeply to what you stewardship?
If not, what would make it worth it?
Part 5 — The Stuff That Might Sound Weird
Do you talk to plants? (Not judging, do you connect?)
What story do you tell yourself about why things aren’t working? (Time, money, climate, “I’m not real,” “my soil is cursed”…)
Part 6 — Editorial Compass
How did you find Weeds of Wisdom?
What topics or plants should come next?
If I only made one thing this year, what should it be?
(For example: “Reading Weeds as Soil Indicators,” “Closed-loop homestead systems,” “Regenerative spray programs,” or something else.)
What’s Coming
Years in the vineyard, and with animals, taught me that spray calendars written for someone else’s soil don’t work, nor do protocols built around products you can’t afford or don’t want to use.
What does work: fermented plant teas, mineral sprays you can make for pennies, and compost extracts that feed what’s already trying to help you. Not because they’re romantic, but because they’re effective, repeatable, and cheaper than a bag of amendments.
Over the next year, I’m building guides for natural spray programs you can test on a corner of your garden, orchard, or vineyard. Track what changes and share what you learn.
Simple A/B trials you can test. No lab required, just observation, a notebook, and a willingness to report what actually happens.
If everything goes as planned, the goal is to reduce your input costs and help you steward in a way that builds a healthier future, for you and the soil.
Healing isn’t about adding more; it’s about removing what’s in the way so the system can remember how to regulate itself.
Soil. Plants. People.
I left conventional viticulture because I watched us poison the ground while calling it stewardship, and saw people (myself included) do the same with our bodies and routines. The pattern is identical: diagnose the symptom, add an input, ignore the system.
This path is about science serving regeneration instead of extraction, about continuing natural science when mainstream science drifts toward politics over truth and transparency.
It’s about bridging what science we do have into something understandable, right in the middle of your land.
It’s about building tools that don’t require you to spend more, learn a new language, or wait for an expert to confirm what your land already knows.
Your answers will shape what I write next: the questions that keep you up at night, the problems that won’t let go, the plants that keep showing up.
Let’s see if we can turn the challenge into an ally.
Thank you,
Jay
📧 farmingholistic@pm.me



This inspires me to journal!
I've just moved and have lots to learn about my new garden, it's soil which appears to have a high clay content and shallow shale rock with poor drainage, also full of taproot 'weeds' which I'm sure are attempting to dig down deep to help the other plants access the nutrients below the shale layer. I have a few Mallow that have gone to seed.... so that's a cure for prettier tap root effectiveness.
So much to discover!
Yes! I am interested in all of this. I want to help the land support me. Please write about it all. I find the idea of weeds as indicators fascinating!